Ready to be into the dating game again after the breakup? It is somehow difficult especially for a man to be on his feet again after being hurt emotionally and mentally by a woman he thinks the one. But any heartbreak can be surpassed if one is willing to gamble and open his heart for someone who has the edge of becoming his new love.
First things first – get your confidence back. Losing faith on oneself is a major disease that can sometimes take years of happiness in your life. Losing faith also means losing confidence, so how can you face a date without it? Learn to earn your confidence back before self-pity eats your whole being away.
If you feel that you are strengthening again, that you have finally conquered the lack of confidence, check on your looks. The looks of the 90s doesn’t work in 2010 anymore so work it out. A little updating of yourself is not bad after all. You will even appreciate yourself more if you see how women look at you after some minor makeover.
No matter how you change your looks, it is still more important how you look at yourself than how how other people look at you. If you base your confidence on other people’s point of view, chances are you will never achieve what you deserve to reap. Improving your looks will help exude your inner beauty as a person and vice versa.
Before you go out with someone new or dive right back into the dating game you need to do one other thing.
You need to decide what you want. Are you looking for someone to go out with once and a while and have fun, are you looking for something a little more physical and less intimate, or are you looking for a long-term relationship to replace the one you’re coming out of?
It is very important to know what you want from your next relationship because it can help you make the appropriate moves for each needs. Avoid moving in haste if you are still not sure of what you really want. Whatever your intention is, be open with the girl you go out with in order for the both of you to do the well-suited moves in your relationship.
Can’t move beyond your ex girlfriend? Why don’t you try to get your girlfriend back instead of looking to replace her with someone else? You might think it’s hopeless but I can help.